beckyloves:

girl-flesh:

I imagine if I had anon on for my Ask Box, I would have already received about 1,000 asks like this one. This frustrates me, but thankfully I keep my anon off because I have no tolerance for morons who can’t say things to a face.

My opinion?

I want respect for the RIGHT reasons. I do not lose respect for women OR men who sleep around, like showing off their body or have a tendency to be more openly sexual. I do not think less of them and I do not degrade them either.

I might lose respect for a person who sleeps around and hurts people in the process, lies about it, hides it (and then talks down on people who don’t feel the need to hide) or is unsafe about it, but that’s about IT.

I want respect from people who KNOW what respect is really about. You should respect someone based on things that are important, like how they treat other people, if they are kind, intelligent, aware and based on what energy they put into the world. Being naked has pretty much NOTHING to do with any of that.

At least some girls have the guts to let people know what they are about and be real about it, instead of posting ignorant questions ANONYMOUSLY. Maybe that says more about you, but that’s just my opinion.

Personally, I’ll pick doing what makes me happy over gaining the acceptance of individuals I couldn’t give a single flying fuck about. If someone doesn’t respect me because I sleep around, strip for money or I’m naked online, then I have no interest in gaining their respect to begin with. One less person for me to waste my time on.

P.S. I started loving myself MORE when I entered into the adult industry and became more comfortable with my sexuality.